Ive been wondering how people change over the course of their relationships, do they become bitter as if somehow 3 years down the road of being together, look over at that person and realize that they love them but don’t actually like them?
In fact I'm sure of that, but is it the person that sours or the situation itself ?
Like the everyday routine infuriates them so that they need to passively chip away at the other person. So then what? it’s a cycle of them insisting nothings wrong that the problem is you, you thinking you haven't changed, you realizing that you both have, talking enough to fix it enough to feel better and ending up at square one.
Could this cycle be part of every relationship, seems a little sadistic.
Sunday, November 15, 2009
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then that means the highest risk of a relationship failing is boredom.
ReplyDeleteRelationships are like an inheritance or a windfall from a "lucky" win of the lottery...
ReplyDeleteAt the beginning they are sweet and free, but you have to be wise and work hard to keep them.